Imprisoning love and true love

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We often think that to love someone is to take care of him, to think before he even asks for help and to preach morality. Honestly, who better to help than us! Unfortunately, when that person responds “what are you getting into”, we are often left speechless, misunderstood, sad, frustrated and angry. In a few points, discover the explanation of the two ways of loving to explain your emotions.

Imprisoning love

We are talking here about a love with conditions, expectations, a love out of fear:– encroaching on the other's space or letting others encroach on mine– criticize myself or others– wanting to control myself or others– have expectations, without prior agreement– decide for oneself or for others without checking the real need– give in the hope of receiving– believing myself responsible for the happiness or misfortune of others and believing others responsible for mine

truly love

This is unconditional love:– respect my space and that of the other– give myself and others the right to be human, that is to have different needs, beliefs, wounds, limits, desires, fears, strengths and weaknesses from others, without judgment, without guilt– lead and guide without expectations– give for the pleasure of giving, without expectations– accept, see, even if I don't agree or even if I don't understand mentally.

Tips

I suggest that you reread it several times in order to begin to become aware and to understand the impact of this way of loving in your life. Thereafter, take each of the points and check with others and with yourself if you are experiencing these situations. For example :Intrude into the other's space or let others encroach into mine: ask the people close to you (family and best friends) if you encroach into their space and also see if you in turn let others encroach into the space. your.

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